Love n Stuff

You've just met someone and instantly you've clicked - the chemistry is unbelievable, something you’ve never experienced before!  You want to spend the rest of your life with this person and have babies with them!  Somewhere deep inside you, you know that this was meant to be and life just slotted into place perfectly for you!

But wait a minute – if you can - what do you really know and understand about this person you’ve just met?  Sure, you’ve been hit by the love bug and it feels great, but is this really what it seems?

Falling in love!  What a wonderful and exhilarating experience the first flushes of love are.  The heart starts pounding, the body temperature rises.  Butterflies begin to stir in the pit of the stomach whenever the object of our love walks into the room.  It’s almost like someone places a pair of invisible rose coloured glasses on our nose which now makes the world looks so…well…rosy!  Life suddenly becomes much more exciting and is now filled with purpose.  

Before falling truly and madly in love check out this 29 page e-book, Love n Stuff!  You could say it asks some deep questions and does give a basic insight into love n stuff.  It looks at values - yours, theirs and maybe compromise, asks you to list relationship no no's, relationship expectations and more.

This e-book has been taken from my personal experiences, observing others and through the experiences others have told me about.  We're all unique and what works for one may not for another however it's still worthwhile having a look at it, so please use this e-book as a guide only!

My area of expertise is not one of a relationship counsellor nor do I profess to be one.  I have however, heard stories of love as well as the challenges of love, from literally hundreds of people.  I'm a firm believer that love can conquer all if both partners are willing to put in the time and commitment needed to grow and nurture the relationship. 

I'm also believer in relationships take work and sometimes lots of it!  It takes patience for love to grow, like planting a new garden, feeding it, watering it, and then watching it grow.  It's through these relationships that we grow as individuals, enriching our lives in profound and ever expanding ways.   

I've come to accept that nothing in life is perfect and that life is perfectly imperfect in every way...